Find Your Own Happiness by These 7 Simple Steps

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Most people spend their entire life waiting for happiness to come to them. However, it is important to be aware that happiness does not come to those who wait for it but rather to those who put themselves out there and seek it. We live in a world that functions at an incredible speed, with feelings of isolation and loneliness being more and more common. More and more people are diagnosed with depression and anxiety, the concept of happiness becoming a rare thing. You too can find your own happiness by following a couple of simple steps. Always remember that pursuing material things does not bring happiness, perhaps only a temporary high.

#1 Quality time with family & friends

When it comes to healthy lifestyle tips, perhaps this is the most important one to consider. No matter how busy you might seem to be, you have to organize your daily schedule, so that you can spend quality time with your family and friends. As the years pass by, you will understand that the time spent with people you love made you truly happy, unlike the fleeting high that comes from pursuing material things. Being close to people you care about can help you feel fulfilled and at peace with yourself.

#2 Work with passion

They say that if you choose a job that you are actually passionate about, it won’t feel like actual work. You need to find a field that you are interested in, as this will allow you to go from a simple job to a fulfilling career. The more committed you will be to your job, the less stress you will experience and the happier you will be with your achievements. Find your sense of purpose and everything else will follow.

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#3 Stay healthy

Our health is the number one thing we take for granted, whether we want to admit that for a fact or not. When it comes to unhealthy habits to break, this is the first one you have to work on. You need to visit the doctor for prevention and not for the actual treatment of various conditions. By managing a good state of health, you will also be happier (illness can generate a considerable amount of stress in your life). Eat fresh fruits and vegetables, drink water and engage in physical exercise. Stay healthy.

#4 Make love

Even though this might sound like the obvious thing to say, you need to have regular intercourse. The more intimate you are with your partner, the happier you will be. It is a well-known fact that sex stimulates the release of happiness hormones at the level of the brain, helping you feel more relaxed. Do not toss these moments of intimacy aside, just because you feel there is not enough time. Make love and enjoy yourself, as you need such moments to be happy.

#5 Be honest about the things you want

Sometimes, it seems that we live two lives, meaning the real one and the one that goes inside our head. We are afraid to be honest about the things we want, even though this honesty might bring us closer to the happiness we seek. Do not spend your time wondering how certain experiences would undergo; instead, find the courage to open up to those around you and tell them about your interests.

#6 Be altruistic

In the fast-paced world of today, being altruistic seems to be the last thing anyone would be interested in. However, when you help other people, you will definitely feel happier. Altruism can boost your self-esteem, which will further stimulate the release of happiness hormones at the level of the brain. The more you help others, the better you will feel. Simple as that.

#7 Get involved

People who are part of something bigger than themselves are also the ones who are the happiest. You can try a new sport and discover the positive effect of team spirit, try out for a band or join a book club. It does not matter what you do, as long as you get involved and become part of a community. Plus, you will get the chance to meet new people, get out of your comfort zone and simply be happy, without investing too much effort into it.

These are a few simple steps you can take, to find your own happiness. Keep in mind that we only live once but, when done right, it is enough. Do not pursue material things, hoping to reach happiness. Instead, spend more time with your friends and family, help other people and find spiritual things to enrich your life. Enjoy the simple things, as these are the most important.

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Author Bio:

Daisy GraceDaisy Grace is a Health & Beauty Consultant, who helps women live a life they love, in a body they live. She enjoys writing on different topics related to women’s health issues. She is a long-time native from Oklahoma, USA and writes article on various topics. Daisy’s purpose and passion lies in facilitating health breakthroughs with women who deserve good health, happiness and self-love. She is being also exploring new things related to general health and beauty.


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About Yvonne I. Wilson (793 Articles)
Yvonne I. Wilson is known for her prolific, dynamic leadership style with over twenty years in the healthcare industry. She is a trailblazer and a catalyst for change; a positive thinker and someone who is very passionate and optimistic about life. She is mantled as an end-time Apostolic Prophet with an extraordinary spirit of discernment, an exceptionally strong prophetic and healing anointing and a unique gift in prophetic intercessory prayer as she navigates through the realm of the spirit and as she ministers to the nations. With the Agape love of God and His undeniable purpose for which He has called her, God has given her a Prophetic Deliverance Ministry to bring deliverance to His people, to heal the wounded, rejected and emotionally scarred/broken in spirit, to break barriers, old paradigms and false teachings and to rebuild, establish and plant the things of God.

8 Comments on Find Your Own Happiness by These 7 Simple Steps

  1. Hi Yvonne; I was surprised by a couple of the things you mentioned here. One, not many bloggers talk about the value of a healthy sex life to happiness. I also liked when you talked about a person having two halves to your personality. But the one that made the most sense was about making your needs known. Many people had asked me if I wanted to host my own radio show or interview people for my podcast. I always told them the idea sounded good but I just didn’t want to take on another project that would require so much work on a regular basis. I kept telling people that until a new friend named Anna Banguiland came along. She said it sounds like you are asking someone to offer you an opportunity where you could have a radio show as long as all you had to do was show up and talk. I said yes that is what I want and what I have been putting out there in the world. Well, I’ve been doing a show with her for three months and in eight days we start weekly episodes. I’m still a bit nervous, but I can see the possibilities as well. Thanks again for this post, Max

    • Hi Max

      So good to see you and happy that you took the time out to leave a comment that has added much value.

      Yes, the healthier one’s sex life the happier the individuals are. That’s a given. A key hormone released by the brain during sexual intercourse and other gestures such as hugging and holding hands strengthen social bond and also increase the level of one’s happiness.

      It is important that we verbalize our needs – it just makes it easier for those who can help to reach out and provide the resources that we need. A perfect example is the one with your radio talk show. I trust all go well with it.

      Thanks for your participation. Have a great day/week.

  2. Hi Daisy and Yvonne.

    You are so right. These truths will make anyone happy.

    Health is so important as a bad health does not make life interesting.

    What an interesting post. Thanks for sharing. Take care

  3. Hi Yvonne and Daisy,

    Loved it! Truths have been spoken here:
    … happiness is becoming a rare thing
    … health is the number one thing we take for granted
    … and of course, making love πŸ˜‰
    … nah, they’re all true πŸ™‚

    Thank You!

    • Hi Ethan,

      Great to see you. Thank you so much for your valuable input. Glad you loved the post and found truths that resonated with you.

      Blessings! Cheers for a really great week ahead. πŸ™‚

  4. Hi, Daisy

    Nice title for blog post. Everybody wants happiness and try their best to get it.

    Glad that you point out the word “passion” for happiness. The energy from doing things with passion will spark the happiness in our life. If we do the steps that listed in this post with contentment and gratitude, depression will be far away from us.

    Will share!

    Stella Chiu

    • Hi Stella,

      Great addition you have made to this post. I am glad that you mentioned doing the steps with contentment and gratitude. πŸ™‚ And as you quite rightly said they are definitely helpful in keeping one from treading down the path of depression.

      Thanks for sharing. Have a great week. Blessings! πŸ™‚

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